Meaning
A contrast with reproach, irritation or contempt: “knows, yet won’t tell.” Both clauses usually evaluate the same person. It most often targets others, but sharp self-criticism is also possible. Directed at the listener, くせに sounds rude.
Formation
- V普通形 (plain form)+くせに: 知っている → 知っているくせに; 知らない → 知らないくせに; 約束した → 約束したくせに
- いA+くせに — 若い → 若いくせに
- なA+な+くせに — 下手 → 下手なくせに
- N+の+くせに: 子ども → 子どものくせに
- Sentence-final (reproach left hanging): 寂しい → 本当は寂しいくせに。
When to use it
- Where to use it
- In casual complaints and reproaches: 何も知らないくせに、偉そうに説明する. Also in a polite story about a third person: 新人のくせに、態度が大きいんですよ.
- Where not to use it
- Not for a neutral contrast without evaluation; use のに for that. It normally evaluates the same person, so contrasting unrelated subjects does not fit. The sharp reproach is usually inappropriate in formal interaction.
Examples
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知っているくせに、どうして教えてくれないの?
You know perfectly well — so why won't you tell me?
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子どものくせに、親に向かってその言い方は何だ。
You're just a kid — what kind of way is that to talk to your parents?
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彼は何も知らないくせに、偉そうに説明する。
He doesn't know a thing, yet he explains it all so smugly.
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姉は料理が下手なくせに、いつも味付けに口を出す。
My sister can't cook, yet she always butts in about the seasoning.
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あいつは若いくせに、すぐ疲れたと言う。
He's young, and yet he's always saying he's tired.
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彼は約束したくせに、また来なかった。
He promised, and yet he didn't show up again.
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本当は寂しいくせに。
You're actually lonely, and you know it.
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父は自分はよく遅れるくせに、私が遅れると怒る。
Dad is always late himself, yet he gets angry when I'm late.
12 more examples
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あの店員は新人のくせに、態度が大きいんですよ。
That clerk is new, yet he acts so cocky.
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わからないくせに、わかったふりをしないで。
Don't pretend you understand when you don't.
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兄は暇なくせに、引っ越しを手伝ってくれなかった。
My brother has nothing to do, yet he didn't help me move.
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大人のくせに、注射が怖いの?
You're a grown-up and you're scared of shots?
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彼はプロのくせに、こんな簡単なミスをした。
He's supposed to be a pro, and he made such a simple mistake.
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彼女は家が一番近いくせに、いつも最後に来る。
She lives the closest of all of us, yet she always shows up last.
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何もしないくせに、文句ばかり言わないでよ。
You don't do a thing, so stop complaining all the time.
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毎晩ゲームをしているくせに、時間がないと言う。
He plays games every night, yet he says he has no time.
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ジムに入会したくせに、一度も行っていない自分が情けない。
I signed up for the gym and haven't gone once. I'm pathetic.
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よく言うよ、自分も昨日遅刻したくせに。
Look who's talking. You were late yourself yesterday.
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うちの犬は大きいくせに、子猫を怖がるんです。
Our dog is so big, and yet he's afraid of kittens.
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あの政治家は税金を下げると言っていたくせに、逆に上げた。
That politician said he'd lower taxes, and instead he raised them.
Important notes
- A colloquial variant is くせして: 子どものくせして. At the end of a sentence, くせに leaves the reproach unfinished: 知ってるくせに。
- If there's no reproach, just a contradiction, のに is better; for a calm "compared with what you'd expect" evaluation, use わりに.
Common mistakes
- ✗ 姉は料理が下手だくせに、口を出す。 → ✓ 姉は料理が下手なくせに、口を出す。 — na-adjectives connect with な, not だ.
- △ 私は学生のくせに、あまり勉強しない。 — possible as sharp self-reproach: “I call myself a student, yet hardly study.” For a calmer admission, use 私は学生なのに、あまり勉強しない。
- ✗ 雨が降っているくせに、彼は傘を持たずに出かけた。 → ✓ 雨が降っているのに、彼は傘を持たずに出かけた。 — the clauses have different subjects (the rain, him); くせに needs one subject.
Check yourself
Pick the translation of each sentence. The wrong options translate similar patterns, so watch the grammar rather than the words.
Similar grammar
- 〜のにのに contrasts facts with frustration or surprise and works about yourself or with two subjects; くせに reproaches a specific person, with one subject.
- ~わりに(は)わりに is a calm "compared with what you'd expect" evaluation, fine for things; くせに is always a reproach to a person.
- ~ながら(も)(逆接)ながら(も) is a literary concession; くせに is conversational reproach. Both can refer to oneself, but くせに requires a context of sharp self-criticism.
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